Paris Golec says her daughters Abigaile and Natascha were taken from her in May 2017, and that what followed was not protection, it was procedure used as a weapon, across state lines, across courts, and behind closed records. After reading her entire blog, I wrote this to put her account where more people will actually see it, and to expose the systemic failures that allow a mother to report a crisis while the system re-labels it as “civil” and lets time do the damage.

When Cindy Lankenau called for help, Florida’s Department of Children and Families and the National Youth Advocate Program turned her life upside down. Her daughter Grayce, diagnosed with ADHD, ODD, and autism, was taken from her care after Cindy defended herself during a violent outburst. Although criminal charges were dropped, DCF refused to reunite them, canceled medical care, ignored court orders, and placed Grayce in a home with no structure or therapy. Cindy’s story exposes how Florida’s child welfare system fails families who seek help, replacing treatment with bureaucracy, compassion with negligence, and justice with silence.